Fork in the Road Decision

You’re being given an option. The proverbial, “which path do I take at the fork in the road?” decision. This decision is solely up to you and should not be based on the opinions or influences of others. But this decision is less about what you decide. It’s about how you decide. How to Decide…

The Love You Need

There are people who show you love all the time. But you tend to focus on correcting for the people and situations who don’t show you love. You need to be aware of this. Because you need to embrace the love from the people who care enough to show you love. Do not deny yourself…

The Passionate Devil Inside

Some may say that there’s a “devil inside” that drives people to make decisions which are out of character. Decisions which may go against interpersonal relationships and social norms. But indulging a guilty pleasure, despite the mischief it creates, isn’t a devil inside at all. The desire for a guilty pleasure is just an unrefined…

How To End This Struggle

When you want to have an experience it’s easy to slip back into that old habit of trying to control for the outcome, often without even realizing it. And right now, your old need for control is what is causing the struggle you currently face. You think your control is helping. It isn’t. It’s Because…

Short-Lived Promises

Your desire for your goals is so inspiring. But please remember, that such strong desire can cloud your judgement. You need a level head when you’re deciding which relationships will help you reach your goal. Know that right now you can easily be seduced by the possibilities offered by someone shiny and new. And while…

M&M’s From a Tampon Machine

Now that I have your attention with this title, I want you to put some real thought into my next words. Because truly understanding them could help you make real progress in getting what you want. And then I’ll explain the M&M’s and the tampon machine. A Helpful Example Relationship Allegory – M&M’s From A…