Conflict – Rustled Feathers and Making Waves

The Knight of Swords reversed speaks clearly to our latte this morning because you aren’t speaking clearly. Something in you is blocking you from speaking your truth. Maybe you think you don’t want to create tension in friendships, or maybe you are trying to gain the approval of someone you admire. But that’s not the truth of it, is it? What you’re really trying to avoid is conflict.

Pros & Cons of Conflict

Conflict is exhausting. Even if you’re good at it. And you have come to learn that things are much easier when you don’t rustle any feathers, or rock any boats. And in an interesting way, you actually maintain control this way. You are the logical one. The one everyone turns to for their situations. People appreciate and accept you for this attribute. And while you’d be a great source of gossip, that’s not your focus. You simply want things to be calm. So you’ve adjusted your voice to “be the calm“.

Vibration Conflict

While there are so many peaceful and admirable aspects to this, consider that you may be stopping yourself from speaking your truth. Which means you’re not being the genuine “you“.

If you believe that your truth will cause conflict then consider that you’re in a different place than your audience. After all, you are working on leveling up your vibration. It’s time to speak your truth and trust that the wrong people will fall away making room for the right people who will find their way to you.

When you simply go along to get along you deny your evolution. So while we could extract some commendable attributes to the “don’t make waves” approach, it wholly denies that you have a voice which matters.

Conflict vs Communication

Don’t let your world’s peace hinge on you just keeping quiet and offering only a neutral, albeit logical, perspective. The wisdom you’ve gained is entirely too valuable for that. It’s meant to get you where you’re going.

Clear your throat (chakra). Say simply, “please clear out my throat chakra,” to The Universe and immediately think about something else. That should do the trick. Then use the careful consideration you used to hone your skills to avoid conflict to more effectively communicate the value of your wisdom.

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