It’s Not What, But How You Choose

When faced with an important decision, especially one which you perceive could change the course of your life, you need to understand that you are not actually looking for “the right” decision. You’re not even looking for “the best” decision. You need to look at how you make decisions.

What pattern do you follow to access the wisdom you need to feel confident in your decision? Because right now, it’s about the process you use to gain knowledge prior to deciding, rather than the decision you choose to make.

What You Actually Want is Confidence

You need to know that what you decide is really of no consequence. It is the simple act of making a decision, any decision, which will set forth a chain of events. We only perceive that we can control the chain of events through our decisions, which is why we try so hard to make “the right” ones.

But saying we want to make the “right decision” is really just another way of saying we want to make “the most informed decision.” Because the more information you have, the more likely you are to understand the circumstances you will encounter because of this decision. Which enables you to confidently navigate your path.

Now is not the time to be hasty, nor is it the time to hesitate. It’s time to seek information to build your confidence. Because it’s confidence in your decisions, in yourself, which is what you’re truly after.

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