Your Ego is Being An A**hole

Before I get started, I wanted to (once again) remind you that if you’ve found your way to these words there’s something in them you’re supposed to know about yourself. You don’t have to be deeply spiritual or pondering how The Universe really works to embrace that it’s up to you what you take away from the things you experience.

Everything you encounter has value in this life. But only if you choose to see it…and be honest with yourself about it.

Satisfaction, Not Gratification

Actually, your ego isn’t back, it’s still here. Which is why things are still a bit turned around.

Your ego’s desires, which are really demands, are what is serving up the illusion of things being upside down in your life. Your inflated ego is looking for immediate gratification. But remember, your heart’s desire is one which is all about the warm satisfaction you feel by putting in effort and seeing what you produce.

The Feeling of Uncertainty

Interestingly enough, your heart’s desire will satisfy your ego’s desires. But the reverse simply isn’t true. If you indulge your ego when these situations arise you will lose your focus. And this is precisely why you are feeling uncertain, confused, and perhaps even a bit defeated.

Before you can do anything about it, you first must recognize that you are feeling with your ego. Which is acting like an unfocused, arrogant, demanding little asshole right now.

What Can You Do About It?

Realizing that you’re experiencing your life with your ego and not your heart is the first step. Because it gives you an entirely different understanding. And it is this understanding which gives way to a new perspective. And this new perspective is going to help you re-locate your true focus.

See. It’s a pretty simple, and logical process.

The sooner you realize this the less time you will spend caught up in the looming defeat you are currently feeling. So muster up your patience to override your ego’s (useless) urgency. Let yourself take in this new scene with the purpose of relocating the focus of your heart’s desire. Because it’s in there. It’s just that your ego turned things upside down.

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