Why Things Aren’t Going Right

We need to call your attention to the way you think. Because you have a tendency to focus on risk and consequence. And this has you aiming at the wrong target.

But What About the Risks?

I know you think that by giving your attention to the risks and consequences that you are mitigating them. But being focused on them is more than being aware of them so you can determine the best course of action around them. Your focus on them is really just landing you everywhere but your goal.

Don’t get me wrong. Being aware of all aspects of your situations is a good thing. But being focused on what could go wrong is precisely why things aren’t going right.

How to Succeed

Relocate your goal and adjust your aim back to it. Just as an archer would. This is the focus you need to find ways to succeed, rather than continuing to find reasons to give up.

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Emotions | What You Want

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Emotions | What You Want

If you want to know what you really want, or what you're actually missing in life, just look at the things you think you want. Whatever those things are — person, place, or thing — give some thought to how you think having those things will make you feel. Because it's the emotions, the fee

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Where to Find Yourself

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Where to Find Yourself

You spent so much time focusing on your physical reality searching for something which resonated deeply within you. You could say that you had set out on a journey to "find yourself". You took on challenges because you thought that proving yourself to others would somehow reveal your true calli

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Your Incomplete Reality

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Your Incomplete Reality

Remember that what you see with your eyes is filtered through what you have come to expect. Your expectations are what you have been taught by others, what you have learned and configured based on your own experiences, and more. Your expectations are a way to keep yourself safe in your environm

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