It’s Not You…

Change, breakup, relationships, outgrowing, evolve, something more,

There will come a time in all of our lives when we will wonder how we ever liked something, or disliked something…or someone.

This is simply because we all change. Experiences and feelings combine to create yet another version of “me”. Whether we believe it or not.

People Don’t Change, or do they?

What causes us to think others don’t change, is that we all change at different speeds.

We can’t ask someone to catch up with us. And no one can slow us down. Paths, and timelines, are often very different.

It’s Not You, It’s Me

We can’t hold their pace against them. All we can do is come to accept that, “it’s not you, it’s me.”

And while others may seem much as they have always been, know that this is simply because your change has outpaced theirs. Maybe even taken you on a different path. And now that you have changed, you are experiencing them as a different person.