Ask yourself what it is you want from the things you are attached to. Your goals, your dreams.
Step by step, strive to know every underlying element of your desires. Go deeper and deeper. Be objective. Approach yourself with neutrality. As though you are the objective party sent to settle the dispute between the versions of you.
Ever work to hear all sides of your own story so you understand (not know) what it is you truly desire. Understand what it is, understand what it is you wish to do with it. Because what you truly desire has no physical form.