The only time we struggle in life is when we are doing things which resist what comes naturally to us. Ask yourself, “What am I good at?” then begin to nurture whatever that is. Seek mastery of your natural talents and you will begin to create the life that you’ve always wanted. Instead of the life you’ve been taught to desire.
The best part of discovering who you truly are is that you will begin to easily meet your own needs. Soon you will notice that your relationships will begin to flow more naturally.
You will begin to simply enjoy someone’s company, without expectation that they will give you what you need. Because you will be doing that for yourself.