The truth is, repeating thoughts and reliving events are the equivalent to looking down and studying the details of a foundation which has already been laid. Those things that happened had to happen so you could be in a better position to see what is possible.
Stop staring at the details of what happened. Stand upon your foundation, which is the sum total of everything you’ve experienced to this point, and let your mind open up and wander. This is how you can have a look around. Because right now, you have the perfect vantage — the perfect perspective — to see the greatest possibilities.