Knowing Fear, Knowing Confidence

Knowing fear and uncertainty in life is completely normal. Actually, it’s so normal that many of us prepare for our day by figuring out how to defend against what we fear. Even though fear is highly undesirable, it has a foundation in what we know, beyond a doubt, is possible…and humans love predictability. So in…

Emotional Intelligence

To create the life you want, or even to just simply manifest a synchronicity on purpose, you need to know and nurture your emotional intelligence (EI). This is because EI is how you build “faith.” It is how you detach from expectations and gain the confidence it requires to not “try,” and to not control…

Your Decisions | What You See Is What You Get

We all want to make good decisions. But all too often, we try and make those decisions based on a blend of what we want, and how other people and things can be/give us what we want. We keep thinking that someone/something else will make us happy. They won’t. You have to know yourself, so…

Self Confident…or not

The whole point of working hard is to prove to yourself that what you want is possible for you. To prove to yourself that you are worthy of having it. Sure, you may think that you’re proving that you have what it takes to someone else – a boss, a parent, a spouse, etc. But…

You Could Definitely Use a Vacation

If you needed a sign to take a vacation, let this be it. You are not feeling doubtful because you’re questioning your decisions which set things in motion. You’re only feeling doubtful because you are literally tired from thinking about all of it. Take a Break Give yourself permission to stop thinking about your endeavors…

How To End This Struggle

When you want to have an experience it’s easy to slip back into that old habit of trying to control for the outcome, often without even realizing it. And right now, your old need for control is what is causing the struggle you currently face. You think your control is helping. It isn’t. It’s Because…