Uncertain Is A Decision

What does it mean to “not know?” When you are uncertain about things in life, you have no frame of reference for “how” or “when.” So you “don’t know.” Because reality works in a funny way, saying “I don’t know” is a decision. Your decisions are established by what you know you can expect, and…

Choices | How To Not F*ck Them Up

It’s funny the things you learn in school that you can apply to everyday life. You think you’re training yourself for a career or other application, but really, in everything you do, you’re learning how to live your own life…if you can see the metaphor. So today, I’m applying the study of qualitative research as…

Cause & Effect of Your Decisions

When you search the Internet or even read a book, you’re acquiring information which will contribute to your interest in a topic. At some point, the information you have will help you make a decision…in your personal or professional life. But the information you accept or reject will be because of your opinion of the…

How to Choose

We over-think and fret over making decisions…making choices. But that’s because we’re focused on the options before us. The key to making the “right” choice does not begin with choosing between the options. It begins with knowing where it is you want to go. That’s what you need to decide, in order to make a…

Your Decisions | What You See Is What You Get

We all want to make good decisions. But all too often, we try and make those decisions based on a blend of what we want, and how other people and things can be/give us what we want. We keep thinking that someone/something else will make us happy. They won’t. You have to know yourself, so…

Where You’re Headed in Life

Whether you know it or not, someplace deep inside of you has a destination for your life. Some destinations are short-term, others are long-term. The thoughts you have, which lead to emotions, and eventually actions, are part of your path toward that destination. How you cultivate your thoughts and react to situations along the way…