Knowing Fear, Knowing Confidence

Knowing fear and uncertainty in life is completely normal. Actually, it’s so normal that many of us prepare for our day by figuring out how to defend against what we fear. Even though fear is highly undesirable, it has a foundation in what we know, beyond a doubt, is possible…and humans love predictability. So in…

Your Conditions for Happiness

I know what you’re thinking. Money eases the burden of uncertainty. The opposite of uncertainty is (obviously) certainty. Certainty is safe and if we’re safe, we’re a bit freer. When we’re free, we’re happy. But this approach to money, as well as happiness, is fleeting. It’s actually quite a long journey through a variety of…

You’re Focused on That Bad Decision

So…right now you seem to be recalling the consequences of your “bad” decisions. But you’re not just remembering them, you’re focusing on them. When you focus on them, you apply them to all aspects of your life. This is how you see yourself as lacking something. And this is what results in emotions like fear…

Your Fear Story

Your fears are just metaphors. Stories you use to explain things to yourself. But as humans, we become attached to the story. Which is exactly how we manifest our fears. So instead of dwelling on the story, face your fears by exploring your “fear story”. Seek to identify the metaphors so you may begin to…

Your Life’s Ridiculous Chaos

When you’re told a change is coming, you need to realize that it’s already here. You don’t need to be “on the look out” for it. You’ll find this mysterious “change” amongst all of the ridiculousness which is playing out in your life. Because these moments of chaos are “the change” you’ve been warned about….

When Your World Is Falling Apart

When life seems to be falling apart, we have a tendency to become gripped with fear. We want to stop such drastic change. But this is actually a good opportunity to take a look at your dreams…your daydreams. Look to see how the life you dreamed about differs from what you currently have. Because this…