Pressure With A Purpose

Too often people seek to relieve the pressure they are under. Even the pressure they self impose by “wanting” things. Their quest to relieve pressure is often to have their burden spontaneously lifted, or their wants spontaneously gifted. But alleviating pressure without experiencing it ensures that pressures will arise, once again, and the same old…

Your Advice Today, Take the Long Way

We love quick fixes and seeing “fast results.” They’re amazing, if not a bit pricey. Results are how we’ve been taught to validate our efforts and see our worth. Irony With a Bonus The irony is that you can’t learn shortcuts if you don’t take the long way initially. The bonus is, each time you…

So You’re Looking For Love

Settle in. This one is a little long winded. All too often, when we want a relationship – whether it’s a new one or we want to improve a current one – we visualize the perfect person. Someone who will somehow instinctually know how to make us feel in some special way. They will fill…

Figuring Out Bad Days

Having a good day should not rely on other people’s role in your life. Having a good day relies on your perspective. And changing your perspective is relatively easy…once you get the hang of it. Once you discipline your mind. Disciplining your mind takes practice, repetition. So never stop practicing. Because it will get easier,…

How To Get What You Want

If you want anything, you simply have to start doing it. Because you have to learn how to do whatever “it” is. And you also have to learn to manage it. There are so many tiny details to learn. So it’s time to get started. Once you’ve begun, keep practicing. Because you want to get…

The Love of Your Lifetime

This love story is one that’s guaranteed to last a lifetime. Looking For (Self) Love Remember that you’re not trying to convince yourself that you’re lovable…maybe you’re doing this by repeating affirmations. You’re also not trying to “make” yourself love yourself. These approaches imply that you’re trying to make your ego, your persona, obey another…