You | Accepted

We tend to think of things in a romantic, pining sense when it comes to our desires from our relationships. We want to be “wanted” and we want to be “needed” by someone we admire. If this resonates with you, consider how you determine your value. Because the truth is, you’re allowing your value to…

Your Formula for Success…or Failure

The frustration and anger you are experiencing are just part of the formula you’re using. Have a look at the formulas above and see which fits your approach best. Then think about how to change your approach, your formula, to get you where it is you want to go. Remember, you are the only constant…

So You’re Looking For Love

Settle in. This one is a little long winded. All too often, when we want a relationship – whether it’s a new one or we want to improve a current one – we visualize the perfect person. Someone who will somehow instinctually know how to make us feel in some special way. They will fill…

You’re Focused on That Bad Decision

So…right now you seem to be recalling the consequences of your “bad” decisions. But you’re not just remembering them, you’re focusing on them. When you focus on them, you apply them to all aspects of your life. This is how you see yourself as lacking something. And this is what results in emotions like fear…

The Struggle Is Real…sort of

The only time we struggle in life is when we are doing things which resist what comes naturally to us. Ask yourself, “What am I good at?” then begin to nurture whatever that is. Seek mastery of your natural talents and you will begin to create the life that you’ve always wanted. Instead of the…

About How You’re Living Your Life

We’ve been told that we have to “live our lives”. We’ve also been told that we need to “lead our lives.” Both of these, and a slew of other sayings, imply that there is some more “correct,” and properly moral approach to life. This then implies that there is some proper action which must be…