Your Eyes Are Deceiving You

If you want to live a specific life, you must first explore your mind to find the thoughts you want. Because you’ve been thinking you want the things you see with your eyes…the things you hear others talk about. You may very well want those things, but you may also not. Your eyes, nor your…

About How You’re Living Your Life

We’ve been told that we have to “live our lives”. We’ve also been told that we need to “lead our lives.” Both of these, and a slew of other sayings, imply that there is some more “correct,” and properly moral approach to life. This then implies that there is some proper action which must be…

Why Things Aren’t Going Right

We need to call your attention to the way you think. Because you have a tendency to focus on risk and consequence. And this has you aiming at the wrong target. But What About the Risks? I know you think that by giving your attention to the risks and consequences that you are mitigating them….

You Could Definitely Use a Vacation

If you needed a sign to take a vacation, let this be it. You are not feeling doubtful because you’re questioning your decisions which set things in motion. You’re only feeling doubtful because you are literally tired from thinking about all of it. Take a Break Give yourself permission to stop thinking about your endeavors…

Start Over – It’s a Good Thing

This has been coming for awhile, you just weren’t ready to know until it was time. No sense in creating anxious anticipation over something this inevitable. But allow me to preface today’s coffee ritual outcome with, “Believe me, it’s a good thing.” It’s Time You’re probably wondering, “Time for what?! Just tell me already!” OK….

Where You’re Going

Today’s coffee reading is all about the value of maintaining perspective while in the moment. Know that everything has its place, no matter how sh*tty. Whatever is happening has to happen to get you where you’re going. And where you’re going is defined by what you’re thinking. If you don’t like what you’re thinking, then…